How to Influence Others
Influence is the ability to get others to do or think what you want them to do or think. Having influence on those around you can open the door to success and is not as complicated as you think. To influence other people, there is nothing stronger than to offer your opinion. But be careful, if you are very direct you may seem aggressive. On the contrary, if you are lukewarm, your opinion will not be heard. As in many things in life, the ideal is an intermediate point. That's why it's important that you adapt to your interlocutor. To be able to influence others, you have to get a good handle on how you translate your opinions. Imagine that you want to influence a customer to renegotiate the terms of an agreement. If your client does not have many more options, your influence will be high. On the other hand, if you have other alternatives at hand, your attempt to renegotiate terms may be considered inappropriate, and you may even lose the client. BROADEN YOUR MARGINS TO INFLUENCE...